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Frequently Asked Questions

 Does therapy have to take years?  Therapy does not have to take a long time.  Professional therapy can be  brief for many clients (1-2 months).  Therapy can also be lengthened  for  people ready to make significant changes in their life (3 months or more).  In my office, many people report that they have had good   changes within four sessions.   Counseling services include using  Client Centered Therapy, EMDR, Cognitive Behavior Therapy as it is  often used  in treating depression and anxiety.   People that come to my office are in charge of their therapy, as a counselor, I provide the guidance, support, and the expertise and they may start and stop at anytime.  


Do I have to take medication?  Maybe or maybe not.  You are in charge of what you put into your body.   I have never pushed medication nor do I prescribe medication for my   clients, because I don't do that.  If you feel that you need medication   management I would refer you to your General Practitioner or   Psychiatrist and maybe have you consider counseling first, and see if   there are measurable changes.  I have assisted many people considering   medication and after a few to several sessions, they have felt no need  for the meds, for which I supported their decision.   Lastly,  you also need to know that there can be very dangerous and also  minimal side effects for using certain medications and for quitting  medications without being weaned off of the medication properly under  doctor's  care.  However, there are some medications that can be perfect  for certain people, but not for all.   


What if I do not want to continue counseling?  You may begin and end counseling at any time - regularly scheduled  sessions  usually work very well for all of my clients.  If something in counseling is not working for you, I would really be happy to assist  you  during this time of need, so please let me know what is not working.   Sometimes when a caring professional may say something that  was not  intended to be offensive, becomes offensive to the individual, this might be an experience "from the past" reminding you of the pain  from  the past and you may want to abandon your progress.  My job requires many traits and one of them is to consistently respect the client, so please feel free to express yourself in therapy.   


 Do I have to use EMDR and what is it?  EMDR is never required.  EMDR is an acronym for Eye Movement  Desensitization  and Reprocessing (or Bi-Lateral Stimulation) and it is an approved treatment for PTSD symptoms.  Agencies like Kaiser  Permenente, the Vet Center, and the Veteran's Administration have used  EMDR as a means to help their clients who have been traumatized to  decrease the PTSD symptoms.  These clients are usually military combat  veterans, rape  victims, and crime victims.  I have performed EMDR since  2005.  I have witnessed considerable success in clients at about a 94%  success rate  with decreasing their PTSD symptoms and I follow the  prescribed 8 phase  protocol, because it works.  For more EMDR info,  please refer to the  EMDR website at:  www.EMDRIA.com


 Do you have hours of availability at night?  I have hours of availability during certain days & late afternoons.


Does therapy have to take years?  Therapy does not have to take a long time.  Professional therapy can be  brief for many clients (1-2 months).  Therapy can also be lengthened  for  people ready to make significant changes in their life (3 months or more).  In my office, many people report that they have had good   changes within four sessions.   Counseling services include using  Client Centered Therapy, EMDR, Cognitive Behavior Therapy as it is  often used  in treating depression and anxiety.   People that come to my office are in charge of their therapy, as a counselor, I provide the guidance, support, and the expertise and they may start  and  stop at anytime.


 What insurance do you accept?   I accept IEHP Insurance and I am an out of network provider for all other  insurance .   Like other professional therapists, I do not accept all insurances.   


Why do counselors use the term "Client" instead of "patient"?

 “The word ‘client’ to denote a recipient of health care has its origin in the mid-twentieth century humanistic approach to psychological counseling of Carl Rogers (i.e. ‘Client Centered Therapy’). The word was specifically selected to avoid a connotation of being sick or ill. … Users of this term seek to convey a non-medical, humanistic, less acute care model of orientation to health care delivery that is thought to be more empowering to the actual recipient of health care”  Quoted from: https://unionsquarepractice.com/client-or-patient-what-should-your-therapist-call-you-2/


What are your views, therapeutic orientation, and time frame on marriage counseling?   I  have counseled thousands of people from different cultures,   ethnicities, and in different languages. I care about the people I see as clients, because I know that they are often stuck at an impasse or are considering divorce and permanent separation and many times they are  hoping someone skilled can assist them through this overwhelming  time  in their life.  I use Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, at times, the   Gottman Methods, and Family System Theories and other skills that I  have  used over the years from my interest to help support  healthy   marriages.  I assist couples whom have religious beliefs and many who do not.  I respect their religion as I have not pursued theological seminaries, I am very serious about what is at stake, and even moreso when children are involved.  My theoretical orientation is to lean on the side to  help  a marriage recover, heal, and continue.  Often times, but not every time,  many couples have already made up their minds about splitting up when coming  into counseling.  When I listen to the ways that a couple has devastated each other verbally, I can clearly see why their minds have been made up.  I am married and I know, that noone likes to be criticized, show contempt against, be defensive against, nor to be   stonewalled.  I focus on the communication styles being used,  unresolved  issues, listen to patterns of decision-making, personal  responses, identify each person's needs and their past, present, and  future goals.  If you (or your spouse) have rage in your marriage it is  likely because of unresolved past issues and will be methodically addressed, if both are willing.  Similar to a disgusting infection, the problem needs to be purged out, cleaned up, and follow a  plan to recover and it may not be painless. Marital counseling success depends on each person in the couple (doing their homework) and a willingness to  forgive, taking responsibility, recognizing their own contributions to how things went wrong, and a willingness to practice new behaviors from a different approach.          


 **Warning about divorce - with the exception of domestic violence, as it is appropriate to seek protections. You may want to take extreme caution of friends or even therapists   suggesting to you or your spouse to divorce, as they will not be there   during the divorce process.  It is easy from the "cheap seats" that   friends and therapists speak to somehow promote divorce.  I have heard   of many stories of misdirected friends and know it all therapists that   certain couples should divorce.  Unless there is physical abuse, my   policy is if you have a therapist or Psychologist suggest divorce  within  6 sessions, feel free to walk out on the "professional" because   they (usually) do not have the tools or patience to work with couples  or  still have significant issues of their own.   For the friends or therapists that suggest divorce, have them answer these questions: Will they give you the money to divorce and the money for  the court ordered 730 Psychological Evaluation (anywhere between $3,500  -  $15,000 - feel free to look that up)?  Will they provide the missing income or provide free babysitting during and after your divorce?  Will  they be there for every court-ordered meeting?  Who will bathe or watch  your toddler while your ex has a new boyfriend or girlfriend?  Will they  be there for you every step of the transition process when it  comes to custody?  Will they provide free support services for your children that  may miss your spouse?  So, please be careful for soliciting advice on whether or not you should divorce.  Whether one  divorces or not, one will still have the unresolved pain from the  marriage and actively participating during therapy will often decrease  the pain.    


 I provide Marital Therapy because I know that good marriages do have a good fighting chance and our society is  lacking in having strong families.  If anything, our society (and  Hollywood) promote divorce and the ONLY people who usually get ahead in divorces are the lawyers!  If you don't believe me, ask any good  Family Law Lawyer, because most of them need your money to pay for their new BMW, Tesla, or Mercedes  and to fund their child's college education with your money or travel to Paris or the Cayman Islands with your money and your children's future money.   Also, the courts have no problem taking your money, as their docket is full almost on a daily basis, and ask any lawyer if judges thoroughly go through a legal case or if they rush through it.  Do you really believe that a  government  official is going to listen to every problem that you will  be presenting  especially when they have had a long day listening to  other adults bicker at  each other?   Some judges are fair and honorable.  Laws get mis-interpreted differently in different family courts & you and your lawyer have  no control over that.   Ask any lawyer if there are female judges vindictive against men and ask if there are male judges vindictive against women - or ask any Baliff..  Ask your lawyer if certain judges hold grudges against other lawyers.  Also, after you file for divorce, you  mailbox will be filled with lawyer mailers who would love your money, I mean, your case.  


Sometimes divorce is the answer, and sometimes you may want to consider mediation or if you two once loved each other, re-consider marital therapy.

Stress in a Physics textbook - The stress applied to a material is the force per unit area applied to the material. The maximum stress a material can stand before it breaks is called the breaking stress or ultimate tensile stress.

Tensile means the material is under tension. The forces acting on it are trying to stretch the material. Compression is when the forces acting on an object are trying to squash it.

I assist my clients with building strength and resiliency so that they don't fold to outside stressors or mean-spirited people.

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